HIDING?

Why is it that people hide other people or other people accepted to be kept hidden by people?

Am trying so hard to understand that. You know each other, even gone ahead to spent nights together please note the nights with an 's', none of you is married nor dating yet you hide each other. Question on my mind is, who or what are you hiding from?

If I feel the need to hide something or someone, its simply because am embarrased or it embarrses me. Why be with such a thing or person in the first place. It shows you are not comfortable with it, my suggestion, let it go. Drop it.

As you now have seen, i have a story for every blog. Now, there is this lovely, beautiful and independent woman i know of but she seems to be dating or seeing men who want to keep her under wraps, hidden. The sad part about it is because she thinks its normal. it should be that way. Have only the people involved involved.

I thinks its crazy. She comes out insecure, low self esteem, but no...I have tried to understand her but she loves being and keeping others secret. her reasoning is, the less people involved the less mess to clean up after all is said and done.

Am thinking, really? These men also seem to have a problem. it should be alarming having a lady ready to keep or be kept a secret. This should mean that one, she isn't thinking of you as long term, and two, you are not worth meeting those she loves, the dear ones. Then again thats just my understanding.

So, the BILLION DOLLAR QUESTION IS... (DRUM ROLLS PLEASE) WHY WOULD I AGREE TO BE KEP A SECRET/ HIDDEN?? mmh?