Indecisiveness

I simply don't get it. How is that you plan for something but when the actual date comes, your not sure. Not sure. Whats going on.

A few weeks ago, I was planning for a surprise baby shower for one of my colleagues right. We had it all planned out. how much we were to contribute individually, the mode of transport and even where to hang out after the baby shower.

Now the party was to take place about 200km/ 124 miles from our office. When it came time to pay up, now most people are NOT SURE about it. Whats not to be sure about. Don't you just hate it when people do that.

Imagine this, if your mother decided on the nineth month tht she wasn't sure whether she wants to give birth to you, or more closely, on pay day, your boss decides he is not sure whether he should pay you. All this situations need planning and keeping to it. If we start not being sure on the last minute, we'll have a very miserable life.

Fellows, you find your woman has set a very romantic mood in the house, ready to giuve you a time of a life time, then when about to do it, she isn't sure and ladies, your man is on one knee ready to propose with a ring in his hand, but before he says those words, he claims, he isn't sure whether he wants to marry you.

Now do you understand why am frustrated. What would you suggest I do?